I want to live in a world where we live to thrive, not to survive.
To constantly worry, focus on what doesn’t work, to be ruled by fear to get stuck in the past - is rarely fruitful ( and yes, at moments necessary, I’ve been there, done that had about 1000 “ what’s wrong with me” t-shirts )
Being on the other side ( yet, sometimes in distress ) I constantly chose growth and possibility instead of cutting life off.
One precious life.
Instead of...
- what’s wrong with me ( how could it be wrong with anyone and who decides that? )
- I can’t do that!
- I can’t afford that
Ask questions that invite possibilities, such as:
- What else is possible?
- How can I make this happen?
- What are the possibilities?
- How can I turn my pain/trauma into a superpower helping others?
Personally, I have been through: sexual/verbal/mental abuse, taking a tremendous amount of drugs, had incredibly low self-esteem ( read non ), self-hatred, bulimia and co-dependency, and few other less desirable patterns that I used to believe in...
I have done the work, not a weekend workshop.
Nowadays, I can with confidence say, I know what am talking about and I can relate to where many come from...
And, my commitment is to make the utmost out of life and gently, lovingly kick the butt on those who desire to live in fulfillment too!